Dating a guarded person

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In Philippians 4:6-7, Paul says, “Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God.And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.” Paul tells us that prayer is the pathway to guarding our hearts and minds with the peace of God.Someone who is EU (emotionally unavailable) may still desire all the attractions of a casual or even committed relationship, however, they will not be willing or capable of connecting emotionally.Basically, being emotionally unavailable means that the person is not interested in love or exchanging emotions on a deeper level.

Simplified, an EU will not be in a position to allow themselves to fall in love and they will struggle to “show up” and be accountable in the relationship.It is at the start very uncomfortable, awkward and even alien to someone who wasn’t taught how to be available emotionally growing up.What we have to accept is that no one can lead you to emotional availability not even someone you are truly in love with.Being emotionally available is not that easy for any of us.And for a man in a society where we give our such mixed messages, it’s no surprise that both the people asking men to be emotionally available and the men who are trying to achieve it, are confused.

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